Yeah, that all sounds fine, are you running the stock antenna on your SE or are you running some aftermarket antenna? I think the going south when you turn on the TX is a clue, many think a dBi mod antenna is a good thing, but an improperly tuned antenna on a TX can cause all kinds of problems with SWR and radiation envelope and power. I am thinking about it this way because when the quad is powered the RX (both receives and transmits looking for a bind partner) and the vTX (transmits), so they are both doing there thing, and no interference. And it isn't limited to big throttle movements so it isn't an ESC noise issue. But the wrong antenna on the TX or a faulty TX could cause enough high power noise possibly. Just kind of running the indications around in my head and that is all that comes to mind. It is times like this when having a buddy with an Frsky TX to test against might help. I think contact somewhere between RX and vTX would cause poop right from the get go, so I don't think that is the issue, but you could always heat shrink or us a few layers of electrical tape around them to isolate better to see. This one is a hard one to figure.